You remember that episode of "Friends" where Monica is mad at Chandler, but waits until after they have BMS to really yell at him? Thats sort of how I feel tonight.
DH has been working on a huge project all week, and he has a work dinner tonight to celebrate the end of it. Then there are (non-work sponsored) drinks after dinner, which, to be fair, I was invited to attend. But once I'm home and in my jammies, theres no getting me out again at 9 pm. He doesnt mind that I don't want to go, but says that he won't be home from the party until after I am asleep.
I have not seen him all week, because he gets home from work so late and leaves so early. I wish he would just put in his obligatory appearance at the drinks and come home to spend time with me. Not to mention he has gotten about 10 hours sleep total over the past 3 days. And he will be too exhausted to come with me to the u/s in the morning.
That said, I do see his side, and as I type this, I feel a little selfish. The god's honest truth is that I don't mind going to the u/s by myself. And we will be spending the whole weekend together (which I know, if I bring it up, would be his first response). And this is a big work celebration, and its nice for him to cut loose after a really hard week. Its also an opportunity to network, something that proves valuable in this economy. And lastly, he probably really likes the social aspect. Over the past two years in business school, he lost out on having close guy friends to spend more time with me.
Still, I may just hold out on my concerns until post BMS ; ) Have any of you ladies waited to air your issues to take advantage of an O?
No comments:
Post a Comment